Choosing the right sex toys is an important part of the fun! This is especially important for first time users because a vibrator that is too big for example, will almost certainly put off your partner for future use of sex toys.
In our experience, many men who buy a vibrator for their wife or girlfriend for the first time, often buy one that is bigger than the average. Wrong move guys! A vibrator or brutal dildo that is too big is sure to be a turn off rather a turn on.
It appears from our research that many men do this because it is their secret fantasy to see if their girlfriend or wife can take the size, a little crude perhaps, but nonetheless this seems to be the reason.
Magic Moments Sex Toys stock thousands of sex toys, vibrators, dildos and female stimulators so the choice is enormous and can sometimes become confusing as to which one to choose.
For those men who are buying sex toys for their wife or girlfriend for the first time, we recommend you purchase a sex toy, vibrator or dildo that is similar in length and girth to that of your own penis. This ensures you are getting something which your wife or girlfriend is used to. If however, your wife or girlfriend suggests something bigger you can always buy a bigger sex toy at a later date.
For you ladies who are buying sex toys for the first time, we recommend choosing a sex toy that you like the look of, choose one that provides satisfaction for your personal choice. If you enjoy penetration, choose a dildo or vibrator. If you prefer clitoral stimulation choose a clitoral stimulator. If your preference is both penetration with clitoral stimulation, a rabbit vibrator as an example, is an excellent choice.
Decide On Internal Or External Stimulation From Your Sex Toy
The vast range of sex toys available for women gives you countless opportunities to choose the right type of sex toy that can give you the right type of stimulation you want. For example, do you prefer internal stimulation of the vagina? Or are you more keen on clitoral stimulation? Or as with most women you probably like both. What size, what shape, what do you want it to do? these are the questions you need to answer to make the right choice of sex toy for you.
Here are a few questions that will help you to come to a decision on choosing the right sex toy for you or your partner.
1. Do you like a particular shape?2. Do you have a favourite colour?3. Are you fussy about the material it is made from, there is plastic, silicone, latex and rubber?4. Do you prefer solid sex toys or flexible ones?5. Do you want a classic sex toy or do you want to experiment with something a little more unusual?6. Are you looking for one to use solo, with a partner or both?7. Do you enjoy clitoral stimulation more than internal stimulation or both?
Your answers to the above questions will give you a starting point on which to build. It is important to choose a sex toy that you are going to be comfortable with, don't let other people make the choice because you are unique your individual choice should be your guide. Unless you want to be surprised by what your partner chooses for you.
Most people buy sex toys to enhance their love life and satisfy their sex drive, so when making your choice of what to buy, you should always keep this in mind. An open minded approach to sex toys is a good thing, so don't be afraid to try something new, it could be your key to even greater sexual satisfaction!
Many people who use sex toys will have more than one, in many cases they may have a full collection! The collection could include such things as vibrating love eggs, a range of vibrators, butt plugs for anal use, bondage restraints for playful bondage fun and much more!Sex Toys Texture, Tips For Selecting The Right Texture For You
Sex toys are made in many different materials, silicone, latex rubber, jelly and plastic are the more popular ones, so lets take a look at each of these in more detail.
Silicone Sex Toys
The main benefit of sex toys made in silicone is that the material very quickly reaches your body temperature and will retain the temperature for a longer period, there is nothing worse than having a plastic vibrator that is cold inserted into a warm moist vagina unless that is your preference.
Another advantage of silicone is the smoothness, silicone sex toys tend to resemble skin, soft smooth and quite sensual. Washing silicone is very easy too, its non-porous and washes well with soap and water or a sex toys cleaner.
Whilst most people wont need to sterilise their sex toys, if you share your toys then silicone can be boiled and fully sterised without harming your sex toy and because silicone sex toys are mainly hypo-allergenic it is rare that they produce allergic reactions.
So in conclusion if you want a sex toy that will last you longer choose one that is made in silicone.
Jelly Vibrators And Jelly Sex Toys
Sex toys made from jelly are much cheaper than silicone ones, they tend not to be so smooth, but they do feel nice and sexy and they are now the most popular type of sex toy.
A great tip when using a jelly sex toy is to use plenty of water based lubricant, it must be water based otherwise it may damage the jelly material.
We recommend using Liquid Silk a lovely silky smooth water based sexual lubricant that is condom and sex toys friendly and leaves your skin feeling silky smooth without the tacky feeling that some sex lubricants leave behind.
Using plenty of water based lube will stop any sticky type feeling you can sometimes get with jelly sex toys. A large number of jelly sex toys do have a slight jelly smell to them, whilst most people don’t mind the smell as it is not unpleasant but it`s something you need to consider, especially if certain scents are a turn off.
With jelly sex toys you should only use warm water not heavily perfumed soap to clean them, the soap may cause damage to the jelly. Jelly sex toys are now very reasonably priced and the range available is increasing all the time.
Latex Rubber Sex Toys
Sex toys made from latex or rubber generally are much firmer than jelly or silicone ones, so whilst they provide fantastic satisfaction, they don’t tend to be so realistic or skin like. They are flexible but don’t bend as much as jelly or silicone ones, nonetheless they are popular and do a great job to provide sexual stimulation. Usually latex sex toys are the cheaper type so quite often you can buy two latex or rubber sex toys for the price of a silicone one, worth considering this when you are choosing the sex toy you want.
Solid Vibrators And Plastic Sex Toys
The major advantage of solid sex toys in plastic is that if they contain a vibrating motor, the vibrations are usually much more intense. This is because the motor transfers all of its power into something that is solid plastic, unlike a jelly one which absorbs much of the vibration. Plastic is very easy to clean, its very smooth, sometimes ribbed but can often look and feel a bit clinical because it is so solid and hard. So the main thing to remember here is if you like intense vibration then you should consider a plastic solid vibrator or sex toy. Bullet vibrators are now a very popular choice probably for this reason.
The plastic ones come in a variety of colours and sizes, so the choice is enormous.
Metal Sex Toys
The range of metal sex toys available is limited because they are a specialist item that many people find far too hard not to mention cold and clinical. Most sales of metal sex toys are purchased by S & M people or those who are active in serious bondage sex games. Great care is required in using metal sex toys because they can cause injury if they are not used with great care.
Wooden vibrators are not a very popular choice for most sex toy users, they are more a specialist vibrator like metal vibrators. Made in a type of smooth wood that is highly polished and then varnished. Wooden vibrators can be difficult to clean and this means they may cause a hygiene problem.
Cyberskin Sex Toys
These sex toys are made from the new materials,it has taken years of research to come up with cyberskin material and what a delight it is! It is claimed to be the closest thing to feeling like real skin there is. The claims about cyberskin are not exaggerated. Those who have used sex toys made from Cyberskin will verify that the soft feel is simply wonderful. Cyberskin is stretchy, soft, skin like and does feel like the real skin. A great deal of male sex toys like artificial vaginas and masturbating sleeves are now being made in Cyberskin and the realism is described by many as awesome. As manufacturers are discovering the popularity of cyberskin is increasing all the time, they are making more and more sex toys using the Cyberskin material. We cannot speak highly enough about Sex toys made from cyberskin are pleasure toys for the future.
Acrylic Sex Toys
These are very hard and although easy to clean, as with metal sex toys, care should be taken when using acrylic types. Much cheaper than metal and a very good type of sex toy to help strengthen your vaginal muscles.
Leather Sex Toys
There are usually two types of leather sex toys, hard leather and soft gloving leather. Whilst most garments made in leather like briefs, corsets, suspender belts etc are made in soft leather, items like whips, paddles, bondage restraints and straps tend to be made in slightly harder leather for durability. Many people love the smell of leather, they love the feel and the look too, so it`s little wonder that leather creates a very sexy atmosphere.
Tips On Different Types Of Sex ToysDildosANDDongs
A common mistake is often made with dildos or dongs, they are often confused with vibrators. So lets try to clarify the differences. Usually a dildo is shaped like a penis and doesn’t vibrate, although there are vibrating dildos available. A dildo can be any shape, size or colour and they do come in different thicknesses. The main use of a dildo unlike a vibrator is to perform thrusting movements into the vagina to simulate the feel of a real penis. Many women enjoy using a dildo together with a vibrator or clitoral stimulator, they thrust the dildo in and out and place the vibrator at the same time on the clitoris, which can produce a very intense orgasm. A dong usually has testicles attached, the testicles make it look more realistic and many users say a dong is easier to handle when thrusting it inside the vagina.
When choosing which brutal dildos or dong is best for you, it is usually a good idea to buy one that resembles your partners penis size and girth, unless of course your partner is smaller than you wished.
st its force until you get the pressure that would be comfortable for you. Our nipple clamp safety guide is well worth a read.
On the other hand, if you are ready to experience pleasurable nipple pain, a spring loaded clamp would be ideal. Spring loaded clamps are not adjustable and they can really provide ultra tight gripping force on your nipples. These clamps are best for punishment fantasy and extreme bondage sex.
You can try the nipple connection metal clamps if you want to fully control the pressure provided by your tit c.
e running water of course) before it finally dissipated for good. Between its staying power and that gel consistency, even my dick gave a little whine when I thought of how nice it would have been for any kind of real action.
Cleanup: Rinses away with water and rubbing.
IF this lubricrant had safer ingredients and IF it hadn't lit my arm up like dry pine needles in a forest fire, I wouldn't even think of tossing this bottle into the junk box now. Michele says she thinks it would have been thicker than what she'd like for regular sex, but yes it would have been the one for butt sex if the ifs weren't ifs. As if that's supposed to make me feel better.
So this one doesn't get a score card either, and I was batting 2 for 2 as far as selecting completely incompatible lubricants for us. To her credit, instead of pointing out that I had wasted an entire gift card on my impromptu purchases, my wife did not say a word other than to point out that I still had 3 lubricants left in the box that might be alright. So the next in line was Sliquid's Dude Lube, the subject of my next post.